Comments on: I hope I know what I am doing http://amaltheus.wordpress.com/2009/02/16/i-hope-i-know-what-i-am-doing/ Love, loss, life... Thu, 02 Apr 2009 16:36:49 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: amaltheus http://amaltheus.wordpress.com/2009/02/16/i-hope-i-know-what-i-am-doing/#comment-887 amaltheus Thu, 05 Mar 2009 00:39:29 +0000 http://amaltheus.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-887 Thank you for your message Soulgirl. I am glad that you have found this blog of inteest to you. I've just been trying to convey my honest, unvarnished thoughts about life and relationships since my marriage went downhill. I never realised that so many people had gone through similar situations. I very much appreciate your comments. Thank you for your message Soulgirl. I am glad that you have found this blog of inteest to you. I’ve just been trying to convey my honest, unvarnished thoughts about life and relationships since my marriage went downhill. I never realised that so many people had gone through similar situations. I very much appreciate your comments.

]]> By: soulgirl http://amaltheus.wordpress.com/2009/02/16/i-hope-i-know-what-i-am-doing/#comment-886 soulgirl Wed, 25 Feb 2009 00:10:50 +0000 http://amaltheus.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-886 Firstly, let me thank you for providing this blog. I think you have portrayed nicely what so many people consider immoral and socially destructive, but I appreciate every word. I understand exactly where you come from and what you have been through. I too have been in a situation not totally dis-similar to yours very recently, only I am the female half of the web of complication. I am married and I fell in love with a married man with two young children. After we embarked upon an intensely emotional and physical relationship lasting 15 months his Wife found e-mails which exposed our liaisons and now, 3 months later, we no longer continue our affair. We are trying to be friends and colleagues and it's the hardest thing imaginable. It's the single most intense thing I've ever had to do - saying goodbye to my lover, a man I truly believed was my soulmate, and have yo work with him on a platonic level every single day. I admire your bravery (which you now consider stupidity and I believe this is not the case) which has allowed you to follow your heart and be with the woman you crave so badly. I don't know what would have happened had I taken that plunge and walked away from my marriage to set up home as I so wished to with my lover, but I know that he couldn't have walked away from his daughters. Coming to terms with this is not easy and so I will eternally live in hope that life is kind enough to throw a chance to us again in the future. I will never stop loving him, that is a given, but I will miss him for as long as I live. I wish you the very best for whatever makes you happy and makes you feel alive is what you must do. Keep up the blog - I admire you for it. Take care... :) Firstly, let me thank you for providing this blog. I think you have portrayed nicely what so many people consider immoral and socially destructive, but I appreciate every word.

I understand exactly where you come from and what you have been through. I too have been in a situation not totally dis-similar to yours very recently, only I am the female half of the web of complication. I am married and I fell in love with a married man with two young children. After we embarked upon an intensely emotional and physical relationship lasting 15 months his Wife found e-mails which exposed our liaisons and now, 3 months later, we no longer continue our affair. We are trying to be friends and colleagues and it’s the hardest thing imaginable. It’s the single most intense thing I’ve ever had to do – saying goodbye to my lover, a man I truly believed was my soulmate, and have yo work with him on a platonic level every single day.

I admire your bravery (which you now consider stupidity and I believe this is not the case) which has allowed you to follow your heart and be with the woman you crave so badly. I don’t know what would have happened had I taken that plunge and walked away from my marriage to set up home as I so wished to with my lover, but I know that he couldn’t have walked away from his daughters. Coming to terms with this is not easy and so I will eternally live in hope that life is kind enough to throw a chance to us again in the future. I will never stop loving him, that is a given, but I will miss him for as long as I live.

I wish you the very best for whatever makes you happy and makes you feel alive is what you must do. Keep up the blog – I admire you for it.

Take care… :)

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